People tend to be wrong. Especially sensitive natures worry and reproach themselves for a long time after making a mistake. You can quickly recover and not lose your sense of self-confidence if you treat your mistakes correctly.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't blame yourself for what happened. Feelings of guilt are demotivating and often get in the way of correcting a situation. There are no ideal people, and you are no exception. Take it easy and save your nerves.
Step 2
Apologize if you hurt or hurt someone. Do not lose your dignity and do not make excuses. Just admit your guilt. Sometimes it’s just necessary to stop torturing yourself.
Step 3
Do not dwell on your mistake and do not allow new mistakes to follow. If you think about yourself all the time in a negative perspective, consider yourself a failure, a stereotype of behavior will gradually form in the subconscious. And you yourself will not notice how you start doing one stupid thing after another. Remember, someone who considers himself a chronic failure gradually becomes one. Conversely, if you define for yourself what happened as a misunderstanding and move on, you will make mistakes less and less.
Step 4
Do not try to justify yourself and shift the blame onto others. If you look at what is happening realistically, you can get a lot of benefit from erroneous situations. And if you consider yourself always right, then be sure - next time you will "step on the same rake."
Step 5
Benefit from any negative situation. Very often mistakes are not a crash, but on the contrary, they open up new perspectives. It is difficult to realize right away, but in the process of comprehending what has happened, many new and useful ideas can come to mind. If it happened so, then it should be so. In the end, whatever is done is for the best.
Step 6
Be humorous about all your mistakes. There are, of course, situations when everything is serious and no laughing matter. Fortunately, this does not happen very often. Most of the mistakes people make out of ignorance, inattention, and, as a rule, they do not cause much harm. Unless they have problems with their sense of humor. Then they harm themselves, repeatedly remembering and scolding themselves for what others have laughed at and forgot.
