Some people think, "Is it bad to love yourself and do what you want?" Of course, this is not bad, but only if you know how to take into account the point of view of other people, because the world does not revolve around you alone.
Instructions
Step 1
Selfishness to one degree or another is inherent in every person, but some take advantage of it. To prevent this from happening, learn to love and respect your loved ones as much as you love and respect yourself. This is exactly what the old wisdom says: "Do with others as you would like to be treated with you." If you are polite and kind to others, they will pay you in kind. To test the truth of these words, try to do at least one good deed for others every day, without asking for anything in return.
Step 2
Learn to separate the concepts of "sharing responsibilities among people" and "shifting responsibility to others." Of course, you should not overload yourself with work or blame yourself even in force majeure situations, but it is also wrong to blame others. Therefore, analyze all mistakes and strive for self-improvement. It consists in not putting off until tomorrow things that you alone are quite capable of doing today.
Step 3
There is nothing wrong with wanting inner growth and career advancement. But it's worth considering at what cost you want to achieve this. In order to make your dream come true, in no case choose the path of "headwalking." With its help, you can achieve anything, but not become happy at the same time. By crushing other people under you, you become an object of hatred, which means that the higher you rise, the more often people will turn away from you. As you know, falling from a great height is more painful, and if you fall, no one will reach out to you.
Step 4
When expressing your point of view in a conversation, listen to the answer. Do not interrupt the interlocutor and do not try to shout him down with your loud arguments. If you do not give the floor to others, they will despise you and will try not to deal with you. Perhaps, due to your self-centeredness, you will think that this is not so bad, but if they are afraid of you, this does not mean that they are respected. Know how not only to listen, but also to hear other people, and then you can hardly be called an insensitive self-love.
