In life, there are rarely people who are able to adequately and calmly perceive criticism from others. Most often they become aggressive, which can lead to conflict. However, criticism stimulates a person to self-development.
Criticism can be encountered anywhere. Almost every person, having analyzed his behavior, will understand that he reacts sharply negatively to criticism. In this regard, the question arises in him: "How to learn to calmly respond to criticism?"
To begin with, when a person hears criticism in his address, he should not rush to respond to it. It is worth considering the words of the interlocutor in order to understand whether the criticism is constructive. To do this, you need to look at the situation from the outside, as if criticizing not him, but another person.
It happens that criticism is not justified, since the person who utters the words of criticism does not fully see the whole situation and does not know all the details. It is better not to react to such criticism, because it is pointless to be offended by such people.
But sometimes criticism is constructive, it is worth listening to such words. If a person has thought over the words of criticism and realized that the critic is right, he should analyze the situation and try to fix it, as well as thank the interlocutor, because he helped the person to make his life better.
So, if the critic is right, you should be grateful to him and not be offended by him. And you should also be careful when talking with a person, so as not to offend him in vain, it is better to learn to see the good in people.
