It happens that others perceive a person as a strange person. If you have such a problem, you need to understand yourself, increase your self-confidence and become a more outgoing person. So you will be able to join almost any team without betraying yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Some people seem strange because they constantly experience some kind of inner conflict. They cannot understand themselves, so the actions of such individuals look inconsistent and meaningless. When someone constantly changes their own point of view, rushes about, doubts, he becomes restless and strange. If you want to live in harmony with yourself, think about what is really important to you, try to understand yourself and develop a system of your own values. Then you will not be strange, but a peculiar person, a real person.
Step 2
Be a more outgoing person. You should not shut yourself in and deprive yourself of the joy of communicating with other people. Individuals immersed in themselves, their own thoughts, unsociable and gloomy, are called strange. So that this epithet is not applied to you, try to open up to others, become more sociable and friendly. Of course, there are times when you want to be alone, think, solve some problems alone with your own thoughts. But if you constantly stay in such a state, you can completely break away from society. Remember that a person without society is deprived of one of the ways to develop and grow. If you cannot find a common language in one team, try changing your social circle, finding like-minded people. Perhaps you are just moving around the wrong people.
Step 3
Express your personality more confidently. You shouldn't copy someone or be completely impersonal. Find your style, define your main advantages, as well as distinctive features and try to present them favorably. Let others see you as a person. Remember that a person is called strange not because he is not like everyone else, but because he cannot clearly define his own position. Your sense of self-confidence should help you gain authority with other people.
Step 4
Ignore the opinions of some people. There are such narrow-minded individuals who are simply unable to understand and accept those who are very different from them. This is due to a too conservative disposition of character, a fear of standing out oneself, a narrow outlook, sometimes even out of envy. Don't be afraid to claim that you are who you are. Do not accept unconstructive criticism, live your own life. Remember that real stars, leaders are not people from the gray mass, but charismatic personalities.
