Often in school, a teenager has problems with teachers. The reasons for the conflict can be different, but the result is usually the same. And it is quite deplorable for a child, both literally and figuratively. Academic performance decreases, self-esteem decreases, neurological disorders occur (problems with sleep, poor appetite, etc.). How can this situation be resolved?
Necessary
Attention, patience, objectivity … Sometimes a pen and paper to write a complaint to a higher authority or an application for transfer to another school
Instructions
Step 1
First, parents need to learn to notice their child's problems at school. A conflict with a teacher is evidenced by a situation when a child is interested in studying a subject, speaks with contempt about the teacher's personality, or gets lost and withdraws into himself when asked about him. In some cases, parents have to watch even a disfigured school textbook on a specific subject. All this, together with the appearance of bad grades, which did not exist before, are manifestations of a negative attitude towards the teacher and evidence of a conflict.
Step 2
Intimate talk. Parents need to find out the reasons and stage of the conflict. And without a frank conversation, this cannot be avoided. In conversation, try not to attack the child with reproaches. Believe me, even if he is wrong, it’s hard for him now. But indulging and rewarding your son or daughter's misbehavior is also not worth it. Try to be objective and try to get your child to see the situation through the teacher's eyes.
Step 3
In most cases, it will be better for the child to "sort out" the situation himself. Sometimes it's enough to just walk up to the teacher and ask for forgiveness. But this should be done only if the child himself realizes his guilt. Otherwise, he will simply regard it as your inability to protect his interests and violence against your will.
Step 4
Talk to the teacher yourself, preferably taking your child with you: let the younger generation learn to resolve conflicts in a civilized way. Listen to the teacher's claims, your student's explanations and try to settle the situation in a peaceful way.
