As a social being, a person lives in an environment of his own kind. But this is not enough for him. For a full-fledged existence, each of us needs people who are psychologically close to us. And we find those who then become our friends or lovers. If you are lonely and need communication, then you just need to find a loved one for a full existence.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not sit at home, communicate with people more often, go on trips. You will surely find a like-minded person in those places that are interesting and in which you yourself like to be. If you have any hobby, then the person who shares it, for sure, can become close to you. Find yourself an activity that captivates you and right there you will meet a lot of people who also like this activity, and among them there will be someone who will suit you in their other qualities.
Step 2
To recognize how psychologically close a person is to you, or to understand that he does not suit you, you can only open your soul and heart to him, at least partially. Direct, confidential conversation will help you understand how your views on life and principles coincide. Even if two people have completely different characters, this will not become an obstacle to true intimacy, if they have the same attitude or perceive this or that event and phenomenon. Many psychologists believe that only people who are different and even completely opposite in their character and temperament can become ideal partners for each other.
Step 3
If you are looking for a loved one of the opposite sex to start a family, then be careful not to mistake physical attraction for spiritual closeness. It often happens that sexual attractiveness becomes the main criterion when choosing a partner, but then, when the passion passes, people become strangers to each other.
Step 4
And it also happens that it is not a cold calculation and a rational approach that helps to find a loved one, but a subconscious attraction. Do not resist him, even if it seems to you that this person does not suit you at all. It is not always useful to trust such a choice only with reason. If you are both ready to get closer, then you can adjust to each other, adjusting your behavior and personal qualities, and become truly close people.
