Usually a child is naughty just because he wants to sleep or is just tired. Often the little man does not realize what exactly is happening to him. And an adult should not wait for a hint from his side.
But the whims of a grown-up kid are the result of permissiveness.
Of course, parents are not obliged to comply with absolutely all the child's requests. But every refusal must be reasoned. The child will gradually understand that this does not mean disregard for his needs and dislike, but is only a consequence of necessity. To achieve results in matters of upbringing, you must show consistency. Don't change your mind after a few minutes. It is especially important that all adults in the family adhere to the same direction.
Even fulfilling some reasonable request of the offspring, you do not need to give up all your affairs at the first request. The kid must understand that the interests of other people should be taken into account.
A child can become uncontrollable and capricious not only because of mistakes in upbringing, but also for other reasons. Pathology of the nervous system, a serious illness, an unfavorable psychological climate in the family.
What if suddenly the child threw a tantrum? First of all, you need to explain to him that you will talk to him only after he calms down. If your serious tone does not take effect, just step back so that you cannot be seen, and watch the child from the side. You will likely be surprised at how quickly he will calm down.
Patience is a necessary quality for any person. If the child immediately gets everything he wants, he develops a passive attitude towards reality.
