A person is able to forgive for a long time the unworthy behavior of loved ones and hope that the situation will change for the better. Nevertheless, any patience sooner or later comes to an end. In such cases, something needs to be changed.
Accept the situation
First of all, come to terms with this situation and finally assess the events objectively. Blind faith in the ability to change a loved one by the power of your love should be replaced by a real understanding of things. If a person does not have his own desire to change, all efforts will be useless. When patience is exhausted, you should realize that this person will continue to behave in this way in the future. At the same time, he can promise for the hundredth time to eradicate bad habits, but, always receiving forgiveness, abuses the trust.
It is worth making a decision for yourself: are you ready to put up with the appropriate behavior all your life or it would be better to put an end to such a relationship. This may not necessarily be a complete breakdown in relations, but it is necessary to completely change the tactics of interaction and transfer communication to another level.
Show emotion
If you consistently endure unpleasant behavior and remain silent in response to rude antics, start showing your emotions and expressing your dissatisfaction. However, do not be under the illusion that this will lead to quick and positive change. First of all, having a frank conversation will help you free yourself from a state of heaviness in your soul, and it will become easier for you.
In the event that your relationship proceeds in constant scandals, appeals and clarifications of relations, stop communication and, on the contrary, stop expressing any emotions. Rather than wasting your personal energy on useless conversations, focus it on improving the quality of your own life.
Live your life
Stop living with other people's problems, trying to save loved ones and showing them the right path in life. Finally start to arrange your personal life and achieve a feeling of happiness and your own well-being. Spend time and energy achieving your plans.
Focus your attention on communicating with positive people. Strive to spend more time with successful individuals who can show by their example how a person's abilities depend on their own ambitions, diligence and hard work. Each person, if desired, is able to be honest and decent, so why expect from a loved one what he does not want to do. Learn from strong personalities to value your time and respect yourself.
Please note that sometimes people, encountering exceptional care and understanding, begin to take such an attitude of their loved ones for granted. They come to the conclusion that the whole world should revolve around them, and in the end they do not even admit the thought that one day the patience of a loving person may come to an end.
