Modern psychology attaches great importance to the process of growing up and upbringing. Indeed, it is during infancy that many programs are laid in a person, which in the future he will be guided in life.
Instructions
Step 1
The assimilation of the principles of the adult world begins from the very birth. The child, not yet able to walk and speak, understands perfectly what is at stake. He absorbs not words, but the parents' reaction to some things. For example, the relationship between mom and dad becomes a standard for later life. Their behavior will change later, but it is worth looking at them when the baby is not yet walking and seeing what kind of family the baby will build in the future.
Step 2
In childhood, there are many psychological traumas, for example, fear, deep resentment, which affect a person's entire life. Having experienced this once, he will no longer be able to think as before. For example, a divorce of parents, the death of a relative can become such a moment. Because of this, a huge guilt is formed in the soul, a feeling of abandonment, which will manifest itself in various aspects of life.
Step 3
At the very youngest age, an attitude towards money is formed. Even before a person receives his first ruble, he will see and understand what his mother thinks and feels about this. If she has a fear of money, she considers it evil and a threat to security, then her descendant will definitely receive the same attitude. It may not be obvious, but persist in the subconscious, but if such an attitude exists, then there will be no big money in the life of a grown-up person anyway. There is a transfer of generic energy, which interferes with realization. You can find out about its availability at psychological trainings or at an appointment with a specialist.
Step 4
In childhood, an attitude to work is formed. If the kid is constantly busy, he has chores around the house, then he grows up to be hardworking. He has an understanding of the need to do something in order to be successful. If a child is pampered, protected from work, then in a few years he himself will avoid it in a variety of ways. There are many examples when a family tried not to burden their child, and then until old age they had to feed him, because he did not want to do something himself.
Step 5
Certain activities also build responsibility. If a child cares for animals, helps in raising younger children, he begins to understand that this creature depends on him. In the future, this will help build relationships in the family, with their own kids. At the same time, the girl learns to show maternal qualities, the man begins to realize his strength, takes on the protection of the weak. The lack of such experience deprives a person of the possibility of realizing that others need care, they are helpless.
Step 6
A child usually perceives much better not what adults tell him, but what he sees himself. He takes an example from those people who live nearby. All images received in childhood form a worldview. And it will have an attitude towards a wide variety of things, and even those that the parents never mentioned.
