People meet, people fall in love and … No, they do not marry, they disperse. But if the relationship did not work out the first time, and you are sure that everything can be fixed, then it is worth trying. But you need to do it right - so that the second time the girl does not leave.
Instructions
Step 1
Be honest about why you want a girl's interest. Maybe now memories just flooded, but you are so different that you shouldn't even try ?! If some fundamentally important moments did not suit you, then do not think that the second time something will change.
Step 2
Understand why interest has disappeared. Knowing the reason can help you act for sure. And if it is difficult to understand the girl's arguments, then ask her friends for help - they can help you understand your beloved.
Step 3
Consider who initiated the breakup. This will significantly affect your further actions. If you left her, then you need to wait a while before acting - it is too likely that she harbors resentment, and perhaps is angry with you. If she broke off the relationship, then there are two options: either you did not suit her very much, or she found another. In any case, you need to show a willingness (if you need it) to adapt to it and please. She needs to see that you are not the same as before.
Step 4
Start from afar. In order to feel the "ground under your feet", you need to check how it reacts to you. Write her a message or letter, call or cross paths casually, but all the topics covered should be neutral and not in any way related to your relationship. So you will gradually enter her life again.
Step 5
Try to be a friend. In the full sense of the word - just a friend, no sex. If necessary, then a girlfriend. She should feel so comfortable with you to start complaining about life's ups and downs, discussing the guys she likes and her friends who fail in a difficult situation. In a word, become everything for her - support and support.
Step 6
Use your knowledge. Remember, the advantage is on your side. You know what she loves and what she loves. How he reacts to various situations, from which he goes crazy. If you skillfully direct this information into action, then you can win her heart. Why would she waste time with a man who does not understand her when you are there ?!
Step 7
Discuss the situation. Sooner or later, this will have to be done. Apologize for past mistakes and suggest trying again.
