Not everyone can ignore their abuser. Instead, many are beginning to become like him and wage an open "war." Few people know that ignoring is great revenge. What is its essence? The answer is hidden in the depths of the human psyche.
Each person has a certain amount of selfishness. Trying to please someone, we all expect a positive reaction. Such mutual exchange becomes a habit and makes people to be dependent on other people's emotions, feelings, experiences. Disorder in love / work / friendships traditionally occurs with scandals. Any quarrel is a kind of giveaway game, where everyone is led to provoke an opponent, thereby showing their weaknesses, but at the same time trying to win. Such tactics usually lead to nervous exhaustion, constant anxiety and loss of self-esteem. Ignoring is a great trick to keep it all safe.
Demonstrative contempt
A proven formula for relationship success is to keep a person at a distance. If this is a man, he will certainly react to the ostentatious coldness of a woman and try to conquer her, if an envious colleague, by completely ignoring him, can be misled and forced to slow down the rivalry. By your coldness towards the person who is interested in you, you show him your superiority. When the answer to the provocation of the ill-wisher is complete ignorance, the opportunity to manipulate you disappears. This technique was used by medieval kings and politicians, because earlier all relationships were built solely on trust.
Information hunger
If you are going to wage a Cold War with ignorance, it is important to stick to your chosen tactics. It is not for nothing that there are scouts in all the defense units of the world. Do not tell the enemy about your plans, do not frighten him with threats, do not let people close to him near you. Due to the sudden informational lull that has arisen, the opponent himself will start looking for ways to get closer to you (unless, of course, he does not support your "game"). Ignoring is a great way to take revenge on an emotional person. If your offender is one of these, feel free to use him, observing the victim's feelings from the outside.
Death to relationships
Most of all, close people react to ignorance. Do not try to point out to your dear person about his mistakes in this way, because this will not work. But this method can lead to a complete breakdown of relations. In love affairs, ignoring will be a real blow to the feelings of a partner, because he will be deprived of the coveted attention of a person he likes. In relation to loved ones, this method of revenge is more cruel than an open statement of dislike. Using ignorance, you become independent of the opinions of others, and therefore invulnerable. However, it must be remembered that such isolation can lead to temporary loneliness, therefore, this technique can be used only in case of emergency.
