According to statistics, men lie much more than women, and this happens one and a half times more often. Scientists argue that the extra pair of chromosomes is to blame for the unsurpassed fantasy for which the male sex is famous.
The constant female struggle with the lies of her life partner rarely leads to the achievement of a positive result. Most often, a woman tries to find a reason for a man's attitude towards herself, thinking that this is due to a lack of love and respect. From her point of view, constant deception is unbearable and leads to the destruction of close relationships. She tries to educate and retrain her beloved, and deep down she hatches plans for parting, unable to continue to endure such a situation.
According to statistics, people tell lies 3 to 8 times a day. Men do it much more often, but women in lies are much more thoughtful and inventive.
In fact, everything is much more complicated. Even with the strongest relationships, male lies continue to exist, and this is due to many reasons, most of which do not depend on his attitude towards his life partner. Most often, a man's lie arises from the desire to show himself better than he really is. In a circle of unfamiliar people, a modest and shy person suddenly tries to show himself as an almighty hero, telling fables and making his wife blush with shame. In such cases, a woman has to use a lot of courage and patience to turn everything into a joke, realizing that this is the fault of her husband's internal complexes and his desire to raise his self-esteem with such behavior. At the same time, he himself does not consider his stories untrue, being in full confidence that "he just exaggerated a little."
A wife should not force her husband to share memories of his pre-marriage relationship with other women. He will not have to bend his soul, and she will not have to listen to the truth.
Even the most business-minded males are distinguished by a rare forgetfulness when it comes to household chores. Sometimes this happens due to irresponsibility, but often this is due to the habit of relying on your spouse in everything. Forgetting about a family holiday, a wife's request to buy something or take out the trash, a man, instead of a simple apology, usually turns on fantasy and sets out a lot of serious reasons that prevented him from fulfilling his promise. With this lie, he tries to save himself from criticism, although deep down he himself understands how childish his excuses look.
Often a woman herself becomes the cause of male lies. Endless questioning and an attempt to control every minute of her husband, spent not under her vigilant control, leads to the fact that he has to dodge and twist so that his explanations do not lead to a violent scandal in the family. Knowing that an innocent, in his opinion, an excuse for a delay, such as a glass of beer drunk with a friend or just a half-hour chatting with an old acquaintance will lead to a stream of accusations and a sea of tears, the man instantly starts creating mythical stories, which, in his understanding, should instantly calm him down. spouse.
Trust in the family will not only reduce the number of stories made up by a man, but will also make the spouses much closer and dearer. Knowing that the truth told to his wife will be listened to and understood, even if it is not entirely pleasant, the husband will not compose unbelievable things. This will save you from the constant humiliation of both: he will stop lying, and she will pretend that she believes in his stories.
