Pickup is the art of dating and seduction that some young people master. Serious relationships are not included in the plans of the seducer, his goal is to win the hearts of as many women as possible. In order not to become a victim of such a seducer and not to experience disappointment, it is necessary to calculate such a guy at the very beginning, best of all - at the moment of acquaintance.
Instructions
Step 1
Most of the guys are engaged in pickup, who want to "take revenge" on the girls who once rejected. This means that deep down these people are insecure. They act after reading numerous "Pickup Encyclopedias", so they use standard methods and phrases for acquaintance. Check out these ways to attract attention and interest a girl on specialized sites on the Internet, and you can figure out any novice seducer from the very first phrase.
Step 2
Pickup manuals consist of a set of psychological cliches, to the action of which they attribute magical power. In fact, trying to build confidence by using the method of "mirroring" your gestures and imitating speech characteristics looks unnatural and ridiculous. They evoke not confidence, but a desire to immediately and unequivocally discard such a home-grown womanizer, who seems to himself an insidious tempter.
Step 3
In the same series, there will be frequent attempts to touch your arm or shoulder in a neutral and friendly manner. The pickup textbooks are filled with guidelines that, according to their writers, are designed to establish a certain degree of intimacy with a girl by straightening her hair or shaking off invisible specks of dust from her clothes.
Step 4
Pickup artists study body language and sign language, which psychologists use to learn a person's thoughts. But someone who is not a professional psychologist has no nuances and is not observant, so they often misinterpret your behavior and feelings. They begin to ask questions of a personal nature that are not at all conducive to sincerity and are inappropriate at this stage of the relationship.
Step 5
If after the first date, which was romantic enough, the young man does not even call you for a while, there is reason to suspect him, such silence is one of the main pick-up tricks. In addition, on dates, he will behave in such a way as to piss you off and, at the same time, he will explode himself over every trifle.
Step 6
By denying him sex, you can hear him call another girl, make an appointment and leave. The pickup textbooks say that after this, the girl will agree to meet again and will never dare to refuse him. Such confidence can also become an indirect sign of a pick-up artist.
Step 7
Experienced seducers, of course, are much more difficult to see through. In this case, you should be guided by your intuition and stop manipulating yourself, even if you are surrounded by warmth and attention.
