Psychologists say that such problems of people, for example, as obesity, diabetes, various phobias and depression originate in deep childhood, from a lack of love, because the formation of a personality occurs at an early age.
The baby, being in the womb, is already learning to recognize and react to the emotions of the mother, therefore, let alone the newborn. For the normal formation of the psyche, the baby, like air, needs tactile and emotional contact with the mother. Lack of love in infancy entails negative consequences, for example, the development of deprivation, this disease affects orphans deprived of maternal love. Such people compensate for the dislike of overeating, there may be inhibition in development, a lack of understanding of how to live in society and the inability to contact others.
The family plays a major role in the formation of the child as a person. It is necessary to show care, show love, do not hesitate to hug and kiss the baby as much as possible, explain what is good and what is bad, praise for new achievements and developmental successes, do not be afraid to pamper and encourage the baby for good and right actions.
Self-esteem in children is formed in relation to behavioral responses in the family. It is important not only to verbally explain about respect for each other or for the rest of the family, but also in practice to show care and help others. If the child sees quarrels and conflicts between parents or relatives, you can forget about educational moments. There will be no sense from an empty explanation. It often happens that often ill children are forced to reconsider the relationship of parents with each other and in the family as a whole. The child is trying to make up for the lack of attention and love of adults at the expense of sores, since during such a period the trepidation and concern for the most important and dear person in the world increases several times than usual.
To try to do without such situations, it is necessary to regularly give the child love and warmth at home, in order to avoid the acquisition of chronic diseases and developmental disabilities.
