Any situation that fate presents to a person is given to him to gain valuable life experience. Many people like to complain that life is not fair and that someone is lucky and they are not. At the same time, those who complain about fate do not even think that this situation was not given to them in vain.
Instructions
Step 1
An unpleasant event often strongly knocks a person out of the usual rhythm of life. In this case, it is necessary to analyze the current situation. It's good if for this you manage to retire at least for a short period of time. Turn off all communications, turn on pleasant meditative music, dim the lights, light incense or an aroma lamp. Create an environment for yourself that allows you to relax and reflect as much as possible. Get into any comfortable position or just lie on your bed. During relaxation, you must be conscious and control yourself to stay awake. Close your eyes, focus on your breathing, try to remove all extraneous thoughts.
Step 2
When you feel that you are internally ready for analysis, begin to remember every detail of the situation. Only now observe everything from the sidelines. Try to be calm about everything that happens. Analyze how it all began, how the situation developed and how it ended at the moment. Think about why the situation was given to you, what it should have taught you. Just do not tell yourself that you will just now be attentive to some person, because it all started because of him. There is no need to blame anyone, because we attract any event into our life with our thoughts and words. Better think about what the event taught you spiritually. Maybe you realized that, for example, you are too rude, ambitious, soft in life. Direct efforts to develop opposite qualities in your life and these will disappear by themselves. Thus, fate will no longer put you in such unpleasant situations.
Step 3
If you did not pay due attention to the analysis of the event that occurred or came to the wrong conclusion, then fate will notify you of this. She will once again include a similar scenario in your life, but it will be more difficult. Since, if a person does not understand what he is being taught in a lighter form, then he must think of when his fate will hit even more painfully.
