Remember that in any situation you need to try to remain human. No matter what events happen, no matter how unsettling what is happening, you should not lose your face and change your own principles.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember to be polite. Treat people around you appropriately. Remember that a well-mannered person is visible in the way he communicates with other members of the society in which he lives. Near an intelligent person, some individuals themselves begin to behave better.
Step 2
Respect yourself and others. To remain human in all life circumstances, it is important to treat yourself well. When a person appreciates himself according to his dignity, he will not allow himself to lose face. The same goes for other people. If you treat them with respect, you can expect to receive similar treatment from them. But tact is the first condition for civilized relations between members of society.
Step 3
Don't lose your dignity. If some individual provokes you and tries to drag you into some kind of scandal, do not become like him, do not sink to the level of a boor. Remember that inner strength is not manifested in aggression, but in the ability to do without its manifestations. Believe me, if you succumb to someone else's influence and lose your temper, you yourself will then be hard and ashamed.
Step 4
Try to stay calm. Learn to control your own emotions. Get in the habit of not being led by feelings, but assess the situation first. Perhaps after you realize that what is happening is not worth it to be so upset about it, it will be easier for you to manage yourself. Use breathing exercises to calm yourself down at the right time.
Step 5
Remember the benefits of a positive attitude. Try to focus not on the negative aspects of life, but on its merits. Think more often about how beautiful reality is, how many good things you have, what wonderful, loving and understanding loved ones are next to you. Look for the good in everything, and it will be easier for you to be yourself in a difficult situation.
Step 6
Make your choice. Create your own value system. Decide what is important to you in life. For a person who wants to be happy, peace of mind is necessary. If you go against your own principles and beliefs for the sake of fleeting pleasure or profit, a conflict with your own conscience is inevitable. If you don't want to, always stay true to yourself.
Step 7
Level up with the best. Some people allow themselves to deviate from personal rules because they see how unprincipled and dishonest others are behaving. If we take someone as a standard, then let it be not an individual who has lost his human appearance, but your idol, who has shown willpower, justice and firmness of character. Get inspired by the biographies of great people. When faced with a moral choice problem, think about what your ideal would do.
