It is not easy when a loved one leaves. However, personal relationships are only one part of your life. Endure, do not hold resentment and anger. After a dark period in your life, the sun will shine again.
This is a very painful and difficult situation in the life of any person. It's hard when suddenly a person who was almost dear to you leaves you. The world is seen in gray colors and it seems that such happiness will no longer exist. But this is not the case. Life goes on, and gradually this life tragedy begins to be forgotten. Six months later, the acute pain goes away, and after a year it stops altogether. In order to survive the state of abandonment and not fall into prolonged depression, follow the rules:
- Don't let your wounded ego act as a victim. You should not accumulate resentment and anger by replaying painful scenes from the past in your head. These thoughts eat away at the soul and body, spoil health.
- Do not take revenge on the offender and try not to speak badly about him. Forgive and let go. It so happened in life that you broke up badly. Try to forget about it. You should not denigrate the person who abandoned you in the eyes of mutual friends and relatives, nothing good will come of it. Do not take revenge, evil always breeds evil.
- Do not immediately look for a replacement for the person who left you. The proverb “they knock out a wedge by a wedge” does not work in this case. No need to frantically look for a replacement for a loved one to ease the pain in the soul. For the first six months, negative feelings are still heightened enough to build new full-fledged relationships.
Remember, the darkest time is before dawn, after the tragedy you have experienced, happiness will happen more than once in your life.
