Excessive falling in love can be a real problem. Some young people cannot focus on other areas of their lives because of the constant thoughts of some girls.
Attitude towards girls
Analyze what is your attitude towards girls in general. Think about whether you perceive them as individuals, or if they are primarily objects of sexual desire for you. If you chose the latter, perhaps it's not about some serious feelings, but about passion. Your condition may be affected by increased levels of the male hormone testosterone. When its amount in a guy's body goes off scale, it can create the illusion that he is simply obsessed with the opposite sex.
If it's not about your physiological characteristics, then the problem is psychological. Try to perceive girls first as friends, and only then as lovers. Make it a goal to get to know your new darling and put off strong feelings for her. As long as you are not aware of a woman's character, her habits and shortcomings, you can create in your mind the image of an ideal girl. Falling in love with a dream woman is not difficult. But falling in love with a living person will be more difficult.
Self-esteem
Understand yourself. Maybe it's all about your level of self-esteem. If you don't value yourself highly enough, you may be looking for approval from the women around you. In this state, you are ready to perceive any kind word and long look as a signal for action.
Dreams begin to appear in your mind about the girl who, in your opinion, paid attention to you. This misinterpretation of women's actions can make you a miserable person. Be more critical and take your time. Make it a goal to find out more how the girl perceives you, whether she is free at the present time and whether she is inclined to communicate with you.
You may be looking for self-affirmation in multiple relationships. By conquering a large number of women, you are trying to increase the level of self-confidence, your masculinity and charm. Then be honest with yourself and don't pretend that you fall in love with the fair sex you are attracted to. Answer honestly what exactly attracts you, for example, the beauty of the girl, her inaccessibility or her status in society.
Lessons from the past
Learn from your own mistakes. Remember how you suffered because of your feelings that your chosen one did not share, how bad you felt, sad because of unrequited love, how you could not concentrate on work, study, sports or hobbies.
Make a choice: are you ready to continue to suffer because of your falling in love, or will you fight with yourself, try to be more careful so as not to get burned again. The right attitude and a strong determination to change your life will help you deal with this problem. Keep your heart free until you realize that you have met the exact girl who is worthy of your worries.
