Unfortunately, vivid feelings are by no means eternal - they can quickly light up and fade over time. And it is painful enough to realize that all emotions are already in the past, and in everyday existence there are no joyful and exciting moments associated with love. But modern psychologists are convinced that feelings can be returned, if you work on it a little. At the same time, experts even convince that love is reborn in much more vivid manifestations than before.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, be aware that your problem is unusually widespread. After all, almost not a single couple leaves the fading of feelings. So if suddenly the person whom you idolized begins to violently irritate in everyday life, calm down and try to realize that this state is only a temporary phenomenon. And of course it will pass.
Step 2
Do a detailed analysis: what do you dislike most about living together? Perhaps you are bored to death by the routine and standard rituals that are present in everyday life? So change everything for at least one day - have dinner at a restaurant, play checkers together, go to a dance. So you get rid of the habits behind which the feelings were hidden.
Step 3
Perhaps it is worth talking - not to sort things out routinely, reaching a scandal, but mentally and carefully. For example, you might just say that you really want to repeat a romantic evening from your first dates at least once.
Step 4
Psychologists assure that it is simply necessary to change something in life. Even when it comes to sex. After all, routine sex is unpleasant. So why not finally step over yourself and try to surprise your partner? Such things definitely revive the former fervor.
Step 5
But feelings are dulled not only because of the usual sex and everyday life. It may be so that in the course of family life it turned out that you and your husband have practically nothing in common, except, of course, at home and children. Friends, habits, hobbies, and professions are different - what can you do? Psychologists strongly advise to "artificially" create common interests. Read the same book, discuss it, buy a dog, go fishing. What if it gets too long and you both become avid dog lovers or fishermen?
Step 6
And people are brought together by difficulties and common enemies. As difficulties, you can plan the construction of a country house, but it is still better not to have common, as well as individual, enemies.
Step 7
Finally, just remember the times when your partner caused you complete delight. Try to remember those feelings, thoughts, words. And you will understand that you definitely cannot imagine life without this person.
