Many people, even in adulthood, do not fully understand how to find themselves in life and understand what to do. This happens especially often if a person is forced to do an unloved business for a long time. In order not to get depressed completely, you need to use simple tips to help direct your life in the right direction.
Instructions
Step 1
Start with yourself and remember your childhood, what were you fond of at that distant or not too long time. Often, desires and dreams formed at an early age can determine the whole future life of a person and what he should do. Even if you had to give up all this in favor of a more practical professional activity, do not rush to part with childhood dreams. For example, a passion for drawing or singing, in fact, can turn into quite a good income and captivate you headlong. Listen to your imagination and it will tell you what to focus on.
Step 2
Make a list of your favorite things to do, listing them succinctly, for example: “singing, dancing, traveling, cooking, running, playing, etc.”. Most of them, most likely, are able to remain nothing more than a hobby, but some can be a true calling, especially if you want to find yourself in life and understand what to do. For example, in the specified list, the actions "cook" and "play" can be completely turned into your profession: it is not at all difficult to learn to be a cook or a teacher (to play with children in kindergarten or camp), and at the same time you can devote your life to that what do you like.
Step 3
If you like your current profession, but you still think that you cannot find yourself in life, most likely, you have not formed hobbies and hobbies, which also make up the most important part of life. Some of them can be gleaned from the previous list, for example, go to countries that you have long dreamed of visiting, or do an interesting sport. Others are formed intuitively. Do you like helping people? Then you may well do charity work. Do you like animals? Numerous shelters and just street cats and dogs will be extremely glad to your attention and care for the smaller brothers.
Step 4
Imagine, or better, write down your ideal day step by step, as you imagine it. You may have a lot of interesting thoughts about how to pass your time. Try to at least partially translate this plan into reality, and gradually it can become exactly what you want it to be. Remember that your life and what you do should give real peace of mind, not cause hostility and rejection. Try to make your dreams come true in any way you can and always strive to diversify your daily routine with new activities as much as possible.
