Very often people complain about life and failure. When the gray stripe is tightened and nothing happens, when you already want to give up …
What to do if luck has turned away? Let's take a look at this behavior and try to find a formula for success for everyone!
A person who is not satisfied with his life cannot fully enjoy it and be happy, no matter what success he achieves. Why is this happening? If you feel that you are missing something and you are ready to change yourself for the better - take action! Imagine how you want to see yourself in the future, what do you lack for complete happiness? Set a goal and walk towards it. The goal may be global and almost impossible to achieve, or simple and achievable in a short time. It all depends on your needs, patience and willpower. It is very important to understand for yourself what desires you fulfill, your own or imposed by society, stereotypes or the opinions of people around you. Be honest with yourself!
End justifies the means? This question can be answered unequivocally - NO. The end does not justify the means, it is just the final step on your way to your dream. You can reach one goal in different ways, in which case you will receive different satisfaction from the result. Do not believe those who say that one goal can only be achieved in one way and in no other way - such people are mistaken, they are limited in their thinking and may simply not notice other options. Don't limit yourself.
Fear, lack of motivation, desire or strength. Old failures, resentments, disappointments? All this takes place, since we are all human and no one is immune from mistakes, our own and others' … But is it worth putting on the cross of a failure? Let's figure it out. Everyone knows what luck or luck is, for everyone has experienced it on himself at least once. I admit, luck is great, it's great, it's cool in the end! When everything turns out by itself, easily and naturally without unnecessary effort. How to make sure that good luck always accompanies you? First you need to understand who is following whom - are you luck, or is it you? Interesting question, isn't it? Luck is certainly important in any business and in a person's life, but you should not rely only on luck, your deeds and actions are no less important. Luck is a gift from fate and must be earned!
Learn to achieve your goal in several stages, do not expect that everything will work out the first time. Accept failure not as an end result, but as a stage in life on the way to your goal. Ask yourself what is more important to you, the past mistake or the invaluable experience that you received and can use it in the future? A person is always learning, and you are learning too.
For any business you need strength. Spiritual, physical, moral, mental, intellectual forces. Creative work takes inspiration. For the intellectual - reason, knowledge, logic, thinking, etc. Where can you get all this wealth if you are morally or emotionally devastated? A person is capable of self-healing after any failures, stresses or other unfavorable factors. Sometimes recovery is slow, sometimes fast. But what if your strength left you for a long time?
There are many situations in life that have a detrimental effect on us. There are also many situations that, on the contrary, have a beneficial and positive effect on a person, his emotional and physical health. The only question is what you choose for yourself!
If you do not have the strength, ask yourself, what are you spending it on? We often attach importance to things that are not worth our attention. Resentment, fear, anger, disappointment, regret, envy, longing, despondency, despair - all these emotions take away our precious energy and give nothing in return! All this has a detrimental effect on our condition. Think about whether you need such a bargaining chip?
Try to avoid situations that cause negative emotions and experiences. If it is impossible to avoid such a situation, change your attitude towards it. Don't let others control your emotions. If you are not your own boss, other people can take advantage of it. For example, you may be assiduously offended, but you decide whether to be offended or not! If you turn everything into a joke, the efforts of the abuser will be nullified.
More positive! Play, create, delight yourself and others. Be spontaneous, cheerful, and open-minded. Smile and success will not keep you waiting!
