Now many people already guess that "poverty is a state of mind", as the heroine of the film said. To paraphrase, we can say: "As you think, so you live." Familiar words, however, many simply do not dare to change their thoughts. And some do not even understand that thinking affects their destiny.
Meanwhile, a person's thoughts can be compared to the construction of a building. With every impulse of the mind, we create the foundation, walls, roof and other components of the building of life - who is in what. Stereotypes make this building so durable that only a powerful element can destroy it. We, as catechumens, hold on to our huts, although we could build palaces or entire cities.
Many people try to start thinking positively and constructively by attending various seminars and trainings, and they help some. However, before letting something new into consciousness, you need to abandon the old, otherwise the new will not fit, and the usual thinking will simply displace it.
How to do it? Test yourself for the qualities described below; determine which ones you have the strongest.
Every evening, remember which of the negative thoughts you allowed yourself. If you hold out for a month, you will be able to control them immediately after they arise. The next achievement is to prevent these thoughts and emotions from developing, to restrain them. Do not jam, but control and calmly do not allow them to yourself. And the aerobatics of this interesting lesson is the transformation of negative thoughts into positive ones. After all, we are the masters of our consciousness, aren't we?
The following is how people who are destined to make ends meet all their lives think, this is your test:
1. I do not think about how to get rich - I am afraid of losing what I have hard earned.
2. I believe that the world is dangerous, and that troubles await me around every corner, and that there will not be enough money, food and other benefits for everyone on this planet. Therefore, all life is a battlefield where everyone wants to snatch their piece and cash in on you.
3. I believe that everyone who has a business, money or prestigious job got it all in a dishonest way. I dislike and envy them.
4. I do not believe that I can build my own business, because I will certainly be deceived, and I am not ready to risk my little money for the sake of an ephemeral dream.
5. I convince others that in our time everything is already under control, and even if they do not jump over their heads, nothing will work out anyway. It is possible only if there is a 100% guarantee that you can "grab" once.
6. I am convinced that business is like roulette. In order for 5-10 people to win, 50-100 losers must give everything they have and even go into debt
7. I am sure that if I gave a girl coffee and a bagel, then she must go to bed with me - after all, I spent time, attention and money on her.
8. I like to take and I do not like to give (not only money).
9. I have a habit of living in debt and constantly take loans.
10. I spend money as soon as I have it, and never save for something important.
11. I rarely praise anyone, especially when communicating on the Internet. What if I advertise to someone I praise, and he profits from it.
12. I am suspicious of those who praise others. If Petya praises Vasya, then Vasya paid him, and they both have money from this.
13. I despise money, and call a thousand a "ruble", as if to show that for me it is - a trifle, although it is not.
14. I pay the taxi driver and the waiter a good tip so that they do not suspect that I am poor. And when I go to visit rich friends, I buy the most expensive gifts so as not to feel humiliating in front of other guests.
After each test, a key to its decryption is given, but this is inappropriate here. Just as one cannot be a little pregnant, so one cannot be partially poor. If at least 3 items from the list are relevant to you, then this is already a sign. Think and grow rich.