Quite often, a woman is tormented by a sense of her own worthlessness. This problem is especially acute for non-working women who stay at home with children. A woman who previously earned money begins to feel useless, even if she is in charge of the family budget. So how do you start to respect yourself again and feel needed?
Instructions
Step 1
Become necessary for yourself. If a person is not interesting to himself, then he is not interesting to those around him. Therefore, remember that you are a woman. Do not bury yourself in household chores, take time for yourself. At least an hour, but it will be your own time. Tragedy will not happen if the stove is left unwashed for an hour, and dad looks after the child, or he plays on his own. This hour can be devoted to caring for your own appearance. A face mask, a manicure, a bath with aromatic foam have not hurt anyone. And they will raise the mood for sure. Read a book, watch an interesting movie, get some sleep, after all.
Step 2
You will have to work hard, but realize and accept that homework is also work. It's just that you don't get paid in cash for it. This job is no less responsible than that of your husband. You create all the conditions so that your husband, having come home, could get a good rest. And this cannot but affect the efficiency of his work. So how can you feel unnecessary playing such an important role in your family life?
Step 3
Decorate your home. Create a decent hearth for your family fire. A cozy interior, delicious food, a joyful child will incredibly delight my husband who has returned from work. After all, all this allows him to gain strength before a new working day. And if some of the interior details are made with your own hands, then you will only "grow" in your eyes and the eyes of your loved ones. And it doesn't matter what it will be - pillows embroidered with a cross or designer furniture and interior details made by your own hands.
Step 4
After all, you can start making money at home too. Write articles, create websites, type texts. Your earnings will depend entirely on the time spent. You may not make a lot of money, but you can feel needed. And when you yourself gain weight in your own eyes, then in the eyes of others you will look much more significant.
