Many are sure that everything in their family is perfect. This will not happen to you, because “everything is different with you” - you love each other. Someone else can have infidelity, but not in your family. And suddenly it happens like "bolt from the blue." Why? After all, everything was just perfect. Unfortunately, this question is rather rhetorical. On the one hand, there may be a bunch of answers to it, but on the other, none. You also need to decide for yourself - to forgive, reconcile and go with him through life further or cross out the years lived together.
Instructions
Step 1
In the future, your tactics should depend on the type of your man. If a man belongs to the type of "Don Juan", then do not hope that he will stop his "adventure quest." Look for dignity in your beloved, for which you will appreciate him and so, forgiving his shortcoming (reliability, good father, excellent owner). It is useless to fight the sins of the "Don Juans".
Step 2
Be philosophical about his betrayal and do not be too principled. Once you have decided to forgive, pretend that you do not remember anything. Moreover, the man himself often does not remember his extramarital affairs. It would be funny if it didn't hurt so much.
Step 3
If your man is calm, reasonable and does not belong to the category of "womanizer", then everything can be much more serious here and this is most likely not a fleeting affair. It is worth considering: what could he lack in family life with you? Delicious salads, heart-to-heart conversations, extreme nature hikes? In general, analyze your life and change it if you decide to come to terms with cheating and be with him.
Step 4
Most importantly, don't get depressed or panicked. You are no worse than his mistress, you are just different. But you have an advantage: most men are conservative. Often they are just too lazy to change something in their life and most likely, no matter how much he loves her, the man will stay with you.
Step 5
You shouldn't sit and wait for him. You now have a little more time for yourself, beloved - spend it wisely and profitably. To bring oneself to life and correct naughty nerves, the best medicine for women is a trip to a beauty salon and shopping. And distract yourself, and change your image.
Step 6
Pay attention to your loved one, but do not forget about yourself. You have girlfriends, friends and you can have a great time with them - cinema, cafe, bowling, etc. The main thing is not to concentrate on your problem. Let go of the situation and it will become much easier for you.
Step 7
But forgetting at all is probably not worth it. This does not mean that at every opportunity you have to remind your loved one about his betrayal. It's just a bitter experience for your family. And every experience is priceless, no matter how painful it may be. In the future, you will look at many things and life situations differently. And the most important thing is your faith. Belief that you can handle it and that everything will be fine with you.
