You broke up once and agreed that your relationship was not worth the effort. But now you want to try to restore them. But does your relationship have a chance of success?
Pros and cons
There are several reasons for rebuilding a relationship. First, there is an obvious attraction between you even after breaking up. Plus, you already know each other and what things each of you like. Thus, you have a good starting point to correct the mistakes of the past.
On the other hand, what annoyed you about each other very likely hasn't changed, and will continue to harass you. A shared past is not always a positive factor. If, for example, cheating has taken place, it is likely that it will overtake you in a new relationship, and you will have to be on the lookout if everything is taking a similar direction. Another option, when it is definitely not worth the effort, is when one of you is not sure if he is ready for a new relationship.
Restored Relationship Rules
Have you decided to give your relationship a chance? Then you need to follow a few basic rules that minimize the risk of failure: be honest with yourself and your partner, understand what you expect from a new relationship. Are you really attracted to each other and can't forget? Or are you just looking for someone to talk to at the moment? In this case, rebuilding the relationship is not the best decision you can make.
