There are people with whom everyone seeks to communicate. They have charisma and are popular in any society. It seems that nature has endowed them with this gift. But often the ability to communicate comes from a lot of practice.
Instructions
Step 1
The main thing to learn is to choose the key to any audience. To want to communicate with you, you need to be able to listen to a person, not interrupt him, not interfere with the development of his thoughts.
Step 2
Feel free to express your opinion. People are interested in learning something new, they will be happy to turn to you for advice. Talk to the person openly, do not hide your eyes. Otherwise it will seem that you are cheating.
Step 3
Try to understand the meaning of what the interlocutor wants to convey to you. You should not nod your head and insert inappropriate interjections. Be attentive to the speaker.
Step 4
When talking to a person, watch your emotions. Too sharp waves of hands, saliva splashing from the mouth, loud screams can simply scare the interlocutor. Do not get too close to the person during the conversation. If you know each other not very long ago or you have a working relationship, this can cause extremely unpleasant feelings.
Step 5
Watch your appearance. Dirty clothes, dirty shoes, bad breath will make the most unpleasant impression on the interlocutor. Even a reasonable intelligible dialogue will not be able to interrupt the unpleasant emotions caused by an untidy appearance.
Step 6
Try to find common topics that would be of interest to both you and the interlocutor. When a person talks about what is really important to him, he opens up. You have a chance not only to maintain an interesting conversation, but also to get a new friend.
Step 7
All comes with experience. Try to talk to people more, do not shy away from dialogue. Very soon you will be able to find an approach to everyone.
