In everyday life, we often hear the call to be yourself. But how to do this if the surrounding world often imposes its point of view and forces you to adapt to reality?
Instructions
Step 1
From childhood, we are told that we should think about what other people think of us. But this approach may not be correct in all situations. If your grandmother next door doesn't like your orange manicure or skull tattoo on your shoulder, that doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. Let me admit that the views of the grandmother-neighbor are outdated for a long time. You are not doing anything wrong, and orange polish and tattoos are your way of expressing yourself.
Step 2
All our problems are rooted in our childhood. Remember, didn't you follow the generally accepted principle of a happy life "do well in school, go to college, get a job and everything will be fine in your life." Unfortunately, these three postulates may not bring you the happiness you want. This is why you can easily violate common truths.
Do all sane people buy tickets from tour operators? Go hitchhiking. Does everyone learn English? Grasp Italian.
Step 3
In order to be yourself, on the one hand, you need to make a lot of effort - after all, you have to go against public opinion, and this is not easy. But you need to remember that the closest people will not turn away from you, no matter what you do. And many of them will sincerely support you on the difficult path to yourself.
By listening to your desires, you can understand what exactly you want. Only in your hands is your destiny, which you can change by accepting yourself for who you are.
