Mutual understanding is a characteristic of a relationship that implies mutual acceptance and, in some cases, forgiveness of each other's shortcomings, the ability to compromise and attention to the needs of a partner. By definition, mutual understanding is impossible if one of the partners refuses to follow these principles, therefore, in order to achieve harmony in a relationship, all participants must show patience and respect for each other.
Instructions
Step 1
Start a common cause that will require the efforts of each of you. It can be a common business, creative or other project in which all participants will have the same voting rights. The opportunity to leave the project should be almost excluded or associated with great discomfort for the leaving. In this case, willy-nilly, everyone will have to put up with the shortcomings of partners.
Step 2
Put yourself in your partner's shoes. Analyze his point of view, the logic of actions. Justify his mistakes. At some point, you yourself will be wrong and will need forgiveness and understanding on his part.
Step 3
Spend more time together. Attend cultural events: concerts, performances, exhibitions … share your impressions, express your opinion and listen to the interlocutor, especially if his point of view is the opposite of yours.
Step 4
Study each other's habits. Give small gifts periodically, even if for no reason. Show attention to your partner.
Step 5
Be sincere in your desire to achieve rapport. The falsity in the manifestation of signs of attention is felt especially strongly, so act from a pure heart and without thinking about possible reward.
