Love should be mutual, otherwise this feeling loses its meaning. Its task is to fill the life of every person with bright colors, boundless happiness, it gives a feeling of freedom and just helps to live.
The first love
When a person just begins to think about the fact that he is in love, and his other half shows the same feelings, and that feeling of reciprocity appears. Now there is an opportunity to trust someone with all your experiences and be heard. This is a wonderful feeling that cannot be compared with anything, at such moments a person is elated and begins to dream.
In childhood and adolescence, all relationships seem very serious due to inexperience and the manifestation of that very first love. However, very often the inability to see something bad in a person plays a cruel joke, and such relationships often break up than remain forever. But that's what youth is, in order to have time to take a walk.
Mutual love is something fabulous and unrealistic for those who have already been burned at least once by an unrequited feeling. Such people have a fear of making a mistake again for a very long time. And that is why they keep their heart under lock and key and do not allow a new, possibly that very mutual, true love to break through.
Reciprocity in adulthood
Very often people are concerned about the issue of reciprocity of feelings after the wedding or the issue of official registration of relations in the registry office at a more mature age. Although they say that all ages are submissive to love, is this so? How to make sure that a person is not driven by ulterior motives and is it as scary as it might seem at first glance?
There is a popular belief that in a relationship, someone always loves, and someone allows you to love. Perhaps this is insulting at the beginning of a relationship, but when two people have been together for 5 years, of course, feelings do not come first. Here, responsibilities to each other, mutual respect, common deeds and loyalty are much more important. At the same time, the warm feelings that were before may not come from one of the halves, but this does not mean that something needs to be changed.
It is worth considering the situation when people get married at 35-40 years old. At this age, it is no longer accepted to be interested in the past personal life, people want to leave it, realizing that time passes, and they are getting old. Many people want their own family, and its construction does not always start according to the principle I love - I do not love.
A huge role is played by the character of a person, his positive traits, comfort with him and more, which at first glance may seem wrong. At this age, all people have long been formed as individuals and it is impossible to remake them, which is why, so that there are no unnecessary quarrels, the partner is selected for himself.
