Mutual understanding is the basis of human relations in any area: professional, friendly, family and others. The word consists of two roots, the first of which is reciprocity, that is, mutual striving for one goal. Therefore, in order to achieve mutual understanding, both participants (or all, if there are more than two of them) of communication must make an effort.
Instructions
Step 1
Observe a person with whom, contrary to your wishes, your relationship is deteriorating. Monitor his behavior and reactions to certain events. Pay particular attention to what gives him pleasure.
Step 2
Give your friend a present, preferably something edible. During a joint meal, it is very convenient to have conversations on intimate topics - a person relaxes and is ready to talk about personal topics. You can also raise the issue of understanding.
Step 3
Put yourself in your friend's shoes under all circumstances. Explain to yourself and justify the interlocutor. Your friend should do the same in your relationship. The best model of a relationship is a constant compromise, a concession of one or the other partner.
Step 4
Distribute responsibilities. Each of you has experience and education in a certain professional and household area, in some things you know better, in some things your partner. Each will feel the care of the other, relying on a partner in unfamiliar issues, and their own importance in solving problems for him.
