Unrequited love is quite common. Having met and fallen in love with a person, unfortunately, you cannot always count on mutual feelings. But attempts can be made to evoke a reciprocal passion.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze the current situation - do you have any chances? In theory, there are always chances, but in reality, things may not be as simple as you would like. For example, your chosen one or chosen one has a family, children, a strong, reliable marriage. In this case, you are unlikely to achieve mutual love, and is it worth doing? Remember that happiness built at the cost of other people's suffering tends to be less satisfying.
Step 2
If the object of your sublime feelings is free, try to conquer it. If you have known each other for a long time and even are friends, it will be quite easy for you, on the one hand, to transfer to a new status, you just have to show more tenderness, feelings, hint about your concern for a person. On the other hand, he is used to seeing you as a friend, so he does not notice a woman or a man in you. Either way, if you love your friend, make a careful attempt to get closer. Do not force events, otherwise you can ruin everything. Gradually, step by step, steer your relationship in the direction you want.
Step 3
If you fall in love with a stranger, first of all, get to know him. Do it carefully, unobtrusively. Find a reason to meet, or ask mutual friends to introduce you and only then proceed to conquering the desired object. There are many specific options for action, it all depends on the situation. Representatives of the weaker sex can use all their charm and apply various feminine tricks, the stronger sex will need to use techniques from the male arsenal of seduction. But before you rush into the maelstrom of passion with your head, talk to the person, understand whether he really corresponds to your ideas about him.
Step 4
Remember, there is nothing worse than lying. Don't try to pretend to be who you are not. Be yourself, while you have all the opportunities for harmonious self-development. Become an interesting self-sufficient person, broaden your horizons - for sure your chosen one will appreciate it. Find out what the object of your love likes, what are his interests, goals in life, hobbies. Start doing something close to his hobbies so that you have common topics of conversation.
Step 5
Please note that there is no universal formula for love, many people cannot even identify the exact moment when this sublime feeling appears in them. Each specific situation has its own characteristics and depends not only on you, but also on the feelings of the other person. Therefore, do not seek to suppress his will and fall in love with your chosen one or chosen one by force, for example, with the help of a magic love spell. It will bring nothing but disappointment and other serious problems.
Step 6
If you've known each other for a long time, but he or she stubbornly does not notice the signs of your love, confess your feelings. Invite your loved one to a cafe or restaurant, tell them that you need to have a serious talk. Do not be afraid to take the plunge, accept any answer with dignity and respect. One of the biggest mistakes you make is being afraid to admit your feelings. A person is afraid of rejection - and hides his love. If you find yourself in such a situation, pull yourself together and take the plunge. Yes, you may be refused - accept this option, accept it. Consider that this has already happened, which means that you have nothing to fear. Talk about your love - even if they turn you down, you will at least clarify the situation. At the same time, refusal in itself does not mean anything - on the contrary, you will have the opportunity to open to express your feelings, to conquer the object of your love with decisive actions. Do you want happiness? Then go for it!
