It so happens that among the acquaintances of a woman there is a man who is sympathetic to her, and sometimes it seems to her that this interest is mutual. However, for some reason, he does not show initiative. A woman cannot understand what a man really thinks, while, remaining a mystery, he arouses even more interest in her. Meanwhile, in most cases, getting to know the person you like is not so difficult.
Instructions
Step 1
Sometimes a man wants to ask a girl out on a date, but he is not sure of himself and is afraid of rejection. In order to gain confidence, he must feel that he will receive a positive response. Sometimes a woman thinks that she is quite clear about her feelings, but a man can imagine the situation in a completely different way.
Step 2
It is generally accepted that the first step towards a closer acquaintance should be made by a man. However, there are women who take the initiative themselves and easily achieve a positive result. Although not everyone can decide on this, because there is a danger of getting into an awkward position. It is best if the lady creates a favorable atmosphere for the man to decide to take the initiative.
Step 3
According to psychologists, people often unconsciously send so-called courtship signals to members of the opposite sex. Men, as a rule, react to such signals by taking initiative in relationships with women who start a conversation with them, smile, throw meaningful glances. In this case, it is not at all necessary to hang yourself on the neck of your chosen one. If he is interested in a closer acquaintance, he will take the first step himself.
Step 4
When meeting with the object of your sympathy, first of all, you need to make a favorable impression on him. To do this, you can smile benevolently, look into his eyes, say something pleasant - for example, admire his mind, strength, knowledge and skills.
Step 5
Next time, it's worth starting a longer conversation, during which you can talk a little about yourself and try to find out what his interests are. At the same time, it is worth considering whether a man continues to arouse sympathy after he has revealed additional information about himself. You should also pay attention to his reaction: if he is positive, you can continue to take steps towards a closer acquaintance, if neutral or - what good! - negatively - it is better to give up trying.
Step 6
If the communication takes place at a friendly level and the man clearly shows interest, the girl should tell him that she is always happy to communicate with him. If a man is really interested and ready to start a serious relationship, he will ask the girl out on a date, or at least ask her for a phone number. If this does not happen, it is better to come to terms with the fact that it is unlikely that you will be able to get to know him better.
Step 7
The advantage of such communication is that the man will not think that the woman is being imposed on him, and the lady, in turn, will not feel rejected if the chosen one does not respond to her “signals”.
Step 8
The initiative shown by a woman is her inherent femininity, coquetry, friendliness, a sense of humor and the ability to communicate. These qualities will sooner or later find a response in the heart of a worthy man, and he will certainly take the first step towards a closer acquaintance.
