You can get rid of your shortcomings, develop talents and get closer to your ideal person if you pay attention to all aspects of life and work on your own character.
Instructions
Step 1
Find your talents and develop your own abilities every day. For example, if you have a predisposition for foreign languages, study them yourself using specialized sites or in courses with the help of teachers. Have a mathematical mindset - find a job that involves the use of logical abilities or requires accurate calculations. Express yourself through work or hobbies, continuously improve yourself.
Step 2
Pay attention to your health. Think about what and how much you eat. Give your body a little physical activity every day, and it will be infinitely grateful to you. Find the kind of physical activity that works for you and that you enjoy, so you don't have to force yourself to do it.
Step 3
Get rid of bad habits. Smoking and alcohol abuse takes away your health, destroys your psyche and negatively affects your entire life.
Step 4
Work on your character. Develop willpower. Set goals and achieve them. The right motivation will help you with this. Try to get rid of the flaws. For example, if you are too nervous, take a simpler view of life, use relaxation techniques. Increase your level of organization. Don't put off important things for later. Prioritize correctly and separate urgent and secondary issues.
Step 5
Pay attention to your surroundings. The people with whom you constantly communicate influence your life more than it might seem at first glance. Make sure your friends are encouraging you to strive to be better. Look up to strong, smart, purposeful people.
Step 6
Be a nice and pleasant person to talk to. Develop positive qualities. Communicate more with children, take care of animals and help the elderly to become more tolerant and kinder. Develop a sense of humor and try to criticize others and gossip less.
Step 7
Don't complain or whine. Control your negative emotions and follow the flow of your thoughts, immediately tracking the negative moments. Read more works of world classical literature.
Step 8
Organize your home. If there is no trash in your closets and no rubbish in your rooms, then your life will be more orderly. Audit, throw away or give away items you no longer need, and keep your apartment tidy every day.
