Your sitting time with your baby is coming to an end, and you need to look for what to do after the maternity leave. If you have a favorite job, where you are loved and expected, then such a problem is not in front of you. But if there is no job, or you would like to change it, then you need to think carefully about your future life. Many young mothers are faced with the question: "How to find yourself after the decree?" The answer to it can only be given by you yourself after careful and balanced thought.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about your desires and plans, which were not destined to come true due to pregnancy and childbirth. Did you want to learn how to drive a car? It's time to sign up for driving courses. Or wanted to learn a foreign language? Now that the child has grown up, you can devote time to this. Or perhaps you wanted to get a new profession or education, but worries and worries about the baby and the house forced you to postpone the fulfillment of this desire? In general, think and pull out the oldest desires from your memory. You can even write them out on a piece of paper and select those that have not lost their relevance for you to this day, and start implementing them.
Step 2
On a piece of paper, write in three columns what you don't like in your current life, what you like and what you would like to do. For example, you are tired of constantly sitting at home, but at the same time you love to play and communicate with your own and other people's children. And I would like you to make your day more varied, you want to bring some kind of income to your family. Consider starting a home garden. You will communicate with children, while you will need to constantly think about how to organize their day, how to keep them occupied, i.e. you will definitely not be bored. And if this business is successful, then in the future you will receive some kind of material reward for your work.
Step 3
Even if a girl has a job, she is still worried about getting out of maternity leave. He is afraid that he will not be able to join the team after a long absence, that he will not be able to match his position, etc. To get rid of such fears, talk to colleagues, ask them about the changes that have occurred, you can even go to work. If you are afraid that you have lost your qualifications, then in a few months begin to slowly delve into work issues, read professional literature, or you can take some work home. The main thing is to be yourself and do not be afraid of anything. Gradually, you will join the team and the workflow.
Step 4
Maybe you shouldn't change anything? Maybe the role of a mother and a hostess is what you need, and you are happy when you are taking care of a child, when you see your husband's gratitude for returning to a cozy, warm home? In this case, you can only slightly diversify your leisure time by taking up some hobby. For example, learn to sew. In addition to the fact that the activity will be enjoyable, then it can bring you a small income.
