The ability to love is the most exciting state in the life of every person. It is natural and accessible, it does not apply specifically to any age, education or standard of living. But often the desire to love takes possession of a person so strongly that he experiences subconscious fear and is afraid of a serious relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Initially, you may be intimidated by the possible risk of losing yourself in another person. Yes, there is such a possibility. But love is also an opportunity to know deeper than your chosen one, which will give you new vitality. Try to believe that true love relationships can never break you down or hurt you hopelessly. On the contrary, they uplift the personality and help spiritual growth. New experience fills life with still unexplored feelings and colors.
Step 2
If you learn to open up, trust yourself and the people around you without tricks and compromises, the beginning relationship will not be so intriguing, intimidating. Initially, set yourself up for the joy of communication, for the ability to understand and be understood by your interlocutor.
Step 3
Look actively for mutually acceptable forms and conditions. Do not humbly accept the relationship offered to you, but boldly claim a creative role. Above all, strive for community of minds. Respect your uniqueness and don't expect to fill any void with sex.
Step 4
People tend to romanticize reality. However, the search for the perfect half is hopeless and initially doomed to failure. Your chosen one is as imperfect as you are. Therefore, do not go to the land of fantasy and do not be afraid of reality. Believe that it is not capable of spoiling the purity of your perception. On the contrary, reality only emphasizes the ideal image, manifests it.
Step 5
It seems sometimes that love takes away your freedom. But for a person it is more terrible to be useless and not interesting to anyone in this world. By overprotecting your personal space, you doom yourself to loneliness.
Step 6
Do not be shy or afraid of this wonderful feeling. Otherwise, your life may be wasted. Only by giving your warmth and care can you receive the same in return. Go more boldly to the knowledge of true things and events, love and accept love.
