You met the man of your dreams, and are ready to entrust him with your life, but something subconsciously keeps you from taking such a step? At the time of falling in love, all the shortcomings of the object of sighing diminish, seem unimportant, but the brain continues to analyze and warns against hasty decisions. What alarm bells should you pay attention to?
Instructions
Step 1
Your chosen one hides a past life
Everyone has skeletons in the closet. But if a person wants to be with you, he will entrust you with the most unpleasant facts of his biography. If he does not have such a desire, then either he has not very serious plans at your expense, or the past is so terrible that it can turn away even the most loving person. Imprisonment, drug addiction, genetic disease or mental disorder, whatever it is, in any case, it is better to know about such surprises in advance.
Step 2
Sissy
Respect for parents, love for family is definitely good. But not if attachment and desire to please them are put above personal interests. And the unconditional adherence of a man in adulthood to the advice of his mother raises some questions. Moreover, such a chosen one will constantly compare you with your mother and his assessments will not be in your favor. And for such a mother-in-law, as a rule, even the most ideal daughter-in-law cannot be good.
Step 3
Addicted to alcohol, drugs, or gambling
It can be assumed that with forgiving, great love, you will be able to overcome the disease together, but this is more a story from sentimental melodramas than from real life. Promises that are not fulfilled, the eternal lack of money, breakdowns, unconsciousness, personal interests always come first. Few will agree to put up with this and ruin their years fighting someone's addictions.
Step 4
Maintains a warm relationship with the "former"
Few people enjoy contemplating how your chosen one flirts with an ex, or rushes to help her, spitting on your general plans. You may not show the appearance that it is unpleasant for you, so as not to be considered a prude, but the sediment remains and discontent accumulates. It is better to say right away that such a warm relationship with the "ex" does not give you pleasure.
Step 5
Speaks badly about the "ex"
When people blame anyone but themselves for something, it is also not good to eat. If all your boyfriend's "ex" were terrible bastards and completely fallen women, mercantile and cynical, who did not appreciate his bright thoughts and subtle mental organization, there is a very high probability that you will follow them.
