Many married men condemn their women for the thoughtless waste of money from the family budget. According to men, most of the purchases made by their wives could be easily dispensed with.
Most often, such claims against the weaker sex are unfair. A woman, better than a man, realizes the usefulness of a particular purchase in everyday life, which is why a husband, who scolded his wife for excessive and unjustified waste of money, ends up actively using the “unnecessary” purchase. Waste of funds is noticed instantly, and it is not easy to assess the usefulness of purchases at first glance, as well as to understand their purpose in family life.
In addition, almost every man wants his wife to look good, take care of herself and dress stylishly, and calls the money spent on these needs wasted.
Based on the above information, we can conclude that the phenomenon called female extravagance is very exaggerated. A man who believes that his wife is mismanaging the family budget should take on this task for at least a month. Such a move will clarify the situation, leading the man to one of two logical conclusions:
- the wife managed the family budget reasonably;
- a shopaholic wife.
Unfortunately, the second option also takes place. Shopping mania is often triggered by a woman's inner discomfort. A woman, not experiencing moral satisfaction and comfort from family life, experiences a feeling of a certain emptiness, which she seeks to fill with various, sometimes meaningless purchases.
In order to forget about this problem, a man needs to reconsider his attitude towards his wife, find an activity that will be equally interesting for him and for a woman, simply spend more time together.
Often the reason for unnecessary spending is the inexperience of the hostess. A girl who lived with her mother and father before the wedding is not always able to correctly distribute funds from the family budget for a month. Most likely, such a problem will be solved by itself as experience in family life is accumulated. In order to understand exactly where the money is going, spouses can keep track of their expenses on paper or in electronic media, such an approach to solving the question will not only give an answer to the question "Where does the money go?", But will also save some part of the family budget …
