The best scandal is the one that was avoided. And it is not necessary to literally run away from brawlers. The main thing is to constantly monitor the situation, figure out those who want to scandal and take defensive measures in advance. You should defend yourself like this.
Instructions
Step 1
Always try to solve problems that arise before the weight reaches the floor. Do not leave the decision of the "delicate" moments for last.
Step 2
If you know in advance that some news or piece of news will cause a scandal, it is worth remembering the phrase "what mom does not know, she does not worry about." In other words, lying is not worth it, but not telling the whole truth does not mean lying.
Step 3
When dealing with scandalous moments, be short and concise. If it is known in advance that the meeting, negotiations, discussion will not be easy and there will be communication with a scandalous person, it is very important to think over the preparations, short phrases. At the same time, they must be pronounced quickly, but clearly.
Step 4
In order not to get involved in a scandal, you need to learn to maintain inner peace. In this case, it will turn out to be, as it were, above the situation. To achieve this effect, you can try to evoke a funny image in your head, remember an anecdote that corresponds to the occasion. It is not necessary to tell it to everyone around, the main thing is to smile internally.
Step 5
The next technique is useful to those who, expressing their point of view, know in advance that a scandal will follow, or those who do not want to listen to someone else's point of view, but only wants to express themselves. This technique is based on the life principle of many people: "Since everyone does this, I will not do it!" It seems that in every person there is simply a built-in gene for the opposite, which calls out to do everything the other way around - not like everyone else. And such a desire of human nature can be used during an upcoming scandal.
Step 6
Having stated all your arguments, arguments, points of view, opinions and wishes (which, of course, are laconic, positive and do not contain murderous words), you need to end your speech with a phrase-appeal to a scandalous person, but in the third person: “Well, now he will say something . After that, as a rule, the one to whom this phrase is addressed falls silent for a long time. This method is especially effective for those who simply specialize in doing everything the other way around. And if you express a desire to listen, he will never speak. For which, in fact, they fought …
