The world is so large and diverse that it is not so difficult to get lost in it. But the situation is much worse when a person loses himself, his “I”, asks a large number of questions to which he does not know the answers. To cope with such a situation can be the one who actively takes up work on himself.
Instructions
Step 1
Be yourself. Do not try to try on different roles, because there is only one life, and there is no place for theatrical performance in it. Personalization happens with age, and it is normal for teenagers to measure images one by one. But an adult must know exactly his place in this life.
Step 2
Don't fit in with people. Communication with friends, colleagues, romantic and family relationships - they all leave their mark, but you cannot let them change you beyond recognition. For example, if someone thinks you’re pinched, you don’t have to dance back on the bar in a nightclub. Chances are, you're just shy and introverted, which isn't a bad character trait at all.
Step 3
Do what you love. To find yourself, you need to find a vocation, and only in it it is possible not to lose your personality. If at work you simply carry out other people's orders, do everything "out of hand" and adjust to your colleagues and boss, you should think about changing your position or profession.
Step 4
Prioritize, don't chase everything at once. Torn between work and family, you can forget about yourself and later feel confused. Decide what is important to you at the moment and focus on it.
Step 5
Stay alone with yourself. A person who wants not to lose himself often tries to communicate more and not to close in himself. But this is not always the right approach. Loneliness also bears fruit, because a person has the opportunity to think about what is happening around him. At this time, he belongs only to himself, and this gives good results. Such work on oneself should take place daily, and it has nothing to do with caring for one's appearance or cooking in an empty kitchen. Learn to just sometimes sit in silence, walk alone in parks, watch the city from a bench or from a window.
Step 6
Educate yourself. Continuous improvement of the personality does not happen by itself, for this you will have to make some effort. You don't have to go to university or enroll in courses. There is always an opportunity to purchase books or find useful information on the Internet. This way you will feel solid ground under your feet and will not be afraid to take the wrong step to the side.
