The conflict between a child and a teacher is a common phenomenon in modern life. Do not let it go by itself. Teach your child to use the example of this conflict to solve difficult life situations. This skill will come in handy for him more than once in adulthood.
Instructions
Step 1
Teach your child to perceive conflict as a challenge to their communication skills. Train him to think that disagreement is a part of life with which you need to be able to interact. Using the example of a conflict with a teacher, train your child to get out of difficult communication situations.
Step 2
Identify the objective causes of the conflict. There may be several of them. First, the child himself may be to blame. In such a situation, he must change his behavior and apologize. Second, the teacher may be to blame. Then you will have to talk to him and ask him to apologize. Third, the conflict can become part of the circumstances or misunderstandings. They also need to be dealt with in order to clarify the positions of the parties to the conflict.
Step 3
Invite "arbitrators" in neglected situations. Society provides us with such a tool for resolving the conflict as an independent judge or expert. In adulthood, this can be an expert commission, expert advice, a jury. During childhood, the child should begin to learn methods of involving independent parties to resolve conflicts. This could be other teachers, classmates, a school doctor, or a psychologist.
Step 4
Teach your child a moderate reaction to conflict. Ignoring disagreements is one extreme and not always appropriate. Fanning a scandal is the other extreme, and it is also rarely constructive. Teach your child to remain calm, but still talk with another party to the conflict about the problem.
