Not every woman manages to find such a man who would fit into her ideal of life partner. It also happens that here it is, the ideal, walking arm in arm with you, and then it turns out that he is not ideal at all, or is already shaking hands with another.
Instructions
Step 1
Oddly enough, in order to find the man of your dreams, you first need to understand your dreams. Analyze your dream. Take time for this, make a cup of coffee or tea, take a piece of paper and a pen, let nothing bother you. Listen to yourself and write on paper everything that you would like to see in your spouse, from appearance and character to the make of his car. Anything you like. Next, using the numbers 1, 2, 3, evaluate the importance of each feature of “your man”, and also distribute the entire set of qualities into groups, for example, appearance, character, financial situation, interests, etc. Count the number of ones in each group: where there are more of them, this is what you should pay attention to when choosing a potential spouse.
Step 2
After that, start looking. Be more active, look for your future husband where people like him live. And what he is, we have already found out. If your husband is an athlete, run to the gym. And if you choose him according to your interests, feel free to step into the dog breeders club, if you think that he should love dogs, sign up for dance lessons if you think that he should move well. By the way, in no other place is there such a variety of men as on the Internet.
Step 3
And so it happened that you found it. He turned out to be not so handsome, but it is interesting to spend time with him. Or, on the contrary, he is just an ideal of beauty, but it is simply unrealistic to communicate with him. Listen to yourself and to him: is he really the one you dreamed of.
Step 4
Pay attention to his behavior, thinking. Find out what he wants from life, whether your points of view overlap on this matter. Pay attention to how he behaves - whether he is too aggressive, or maybe overly gentle. Consider if he has any habits that contradict your principles of life.
Step 5
Finally, don't forget about yourself. Remember that if you have an ideal man, then he can also dream of an ideal woman. If you want to be with him, you have to try hard. Pay attention to your hairstyle, makeup, style, do not forget about spiritual and intellectual development. Become an ideal, and you will find a man to match yourself.
