It is believed that when dating, the initiative in the conversation belongs to the guy. This may be so, but the girl also needs to open up in order for the communication to be full. If you remain silent all the time, then he may perceive this as an unwillingness to talk and as the fact that he is not interesting to you either as an interlocutor or as a person. In addition, if you like him, you should interest him in your personality, spiritual qualities and character traits.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about topics that will be of real interest to both of you. Of course, this will not be a topic about the weather or the latest fashion trends. If you know in advance about his hobbies, you can discuss them and along the way express your opinion. It is better if such hobbies are common. You can, for example, both enjoy computer games, alpine skiing, travel, or love animals. This is a great opportunity to talk about what you know and open up in conversation.
Step 2
You can reveal yourself in a story about your loved ones. Of course, you should not talk about your family tree, starting from the time of King Pea, but you can briefly tell about your family. To do this, even involve him as a counselor or consultant on the relationship with your parents or brother. He will have the opportunity to get to know you better and give you valuable advice. He will be pleased that his opinion is being listened to.
Step 3
Don't ignore his questions about you and your hobbies. Don't get off with two or three words. If he shows interest, then answer in detail. But, again, do not turn the meeting into your benefit performance, let him speak, ask questions about his life, friends and hobbies. This will characterize you as a tactful and attentive companion, and even the most brutal guys need such a girl.
Step 4
Find a reason to laugh together. There is no need to tell him salty jokes, remember an incident from your life and insert it into a conversation - nothing brings people closer together as general fun. After showing your sense of humor, respond appropriately to his jokes so that he sees that you are able to appreciate them.
