There is nothing wrong with wanting to attract members of the opposite sex. This desire forces a woman to monitor her appearance and develop intellectually. Problems begin when the desire to be liked becomes an obsession. You don't need to cross the line between playfulness and easy accessibility.
Instructions
Step 1
Take your free time with pleasant and useful hobbies. Do not forget that there are so many interesting things in life, except for men. Focus on your studies or career. Go in for sports, find a new hobby - dancing, going to the theater or cinema, yoga, etc. So you will not only stop constantly thinking about guys, but you will also be in a circle of like-minded people, among whom there will certainly be someone who wants not just flirting, but a long and serious relationship.
Step 2
Respect yourself. No wonder men at all times were dizzy with impregnable and proud beauties. The obsessive desire to be liked will not escape others. And the guys, realizing that they won the battle, will lose interest in your person.
Step 3
Surprise your partner. If you already have a second half, your constant desire to charm everyone around you can offend and disappoint your partner. A little jealousy doesn't hurt, but constantly flirting with others can break relationships. Learn to please your man, surprise him. His genuine delight will fuel your self-esteem, and the desire to please everyone will diminish.
Step 4
Dedicate yourself to your family. If you have a beloved husband and children, direct your energy towards creating coziness and comfort. Let the desire to please everyone as a woman is transformed into a desire to be recognized as an exemplary hostess, faithful wife and caring mother.
Step 5
Refer to the spiritual experience of the community. Depending on your faith and beliefs, this could be the Bible, the Koran, or other teachings. In any philosophy there are thoughts about the destiny of a woman and her earthly path. Perhaps this will force you to reconsider your views on relationships with other people.
Step 6
Change your image. If you are deeply sure that you can only like a short skirt, with an open neckline or a leopard-print dress, urgently revise your wardrobe. Elegance attracts no worse than overt sexuality, while dubious acquaintances will become several times less.
Step 7
Enjoy the attention. If nature has rewarded you with the talent to turn the head of the opposite sex, use it. Unobtrusive flirting and admiring glances boost your mood and self-esteem. Just remember about your reputation and do not allow unnecessary things.
Step 8
Understand yourself. Behind the desire to be liked, there may be various psychological problems: self-doubt, chronic complexes, fear of loneliness, etc. Knowing the cause will make it easier to deal with its consequences. If you can't do it yourself, see a psychologist.
