It's no secret that many girls have difficulty communicating with guys. Often, young people find a sense of insecurity when they are forced to answer a young person's questions. Of course, everything depends on the questions themselves.
Instructions
Step 1
Relationships are partly made up of questions and answers. Here we are not considering the momentary, meaningless relationship between a guy and a girl. If a young man is not showing an idle interest in you, try to decide what you would like to look like in his eyes. Submissive and not controversial? Daring and independent, sly and flirtatious, seductive, simple and straightforward, and therefore not annoying? All this can be understood from your answers. And of course, you yourself have to understand what you want from this relationship. Of course, a lot depends on your boyfriend's questions, what he wants. If you see that in his curiosity there is a desire for early sex and only, you can directly find out from him about this by answering a question with a question. Let's say a guy asks you about the upcoming evening, would you like to spend it in his apartment, because the parents have left for the dacha and the area is free. If you feel that you are not ready yet for a close relationship, do not hesitate and ask directly about the prospects of the upcoming date. If you are dear to him as a person, he will try to calm you down and allay your fears. You can even take his word that there will be nothing that you do not want this evening. If the feelings are real, delaying intimacy is not a hindrance. And time in this case is only an assistant.
Step 2
Men are sometimes strange people, and courtship can take on unusual forms. To entertain you or appear witty, a guy may start asking ridiculous or just plain stupid questions. You don't need to take it seriously or worry about it. Maybe in this way he is just trying to fill in the pauses, to entertain you. And if the interlocutor is not indifferent to you, you can use the following answer options: to answer in his key is also meaningless, about nothing, but with a touch of good-natured humor. If these guys' questions throw you off balance, try to steer the conversation in the direction you are interested in.
Step 3
Along with the above, you can face very specific, sometimes tough questions. For example: "Do you really consider yourself that smart (beautiful, independent, etc.)?" - answer simply and calmly that you see yourself exactly as your friends, relatives and loving people see you. Or: "Do you think I am handsome enough, sexy, independent, etc.?" - here with the answer, everything is much more complicated. A rare girl can answer positively to all points of such a question, and such an answer would mean that she met a fairy-tale prince. Negatively truthful, denouncing answers painfully hit the hypertrophied male pride. If you want to correct something in the above qualities, start with praise and approval. Talk delicately about what you would like to see or change and use the example of other men or couples.
