A friendly company is very important for a person, no matter what he says about his love for loneliness and solitude. This is the source of energy and joy that helps each of us create and live. It is not so easy to find a company of people that would harmoniously suit you, but if you are ready to go in search, use our helpful tips.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think about what is the reason that you still have not acquired a friendly company. Is it because you devoted all your time to business, work, study, or do you have some qualities that repel the people around you? Try to identify the most objective reason for your situation.
Step 2
If you find that you are not overly friendly and welcoming, or you have other negative personality traits, start working on yourself. Get rid of such qualities as criticism, rudeness, isolation, distrust, dishonesty, and jealousy.
Step 3
Love yourself, understand that you are an amazing person, worthy of the company of the best people. People around us treat us the way we treat ourselves, and if you want to receive love, respect, care and trust from others, you must learn to feel the same for yourself.
Step 4
Remember that friendship is a responsibility. Therefore, be prepared to bear all the hardships of human relations, and only then will you be able to share the friendly joy. Learn to give, then you will receive - this is the golden rule of friendship.
Step 5
When you are mentally prepared, go in search. Friends can meet at any stage of life, but making independent attempts to find them is also useful. One of the most common is attending events that are close to you in spirit (for example, concerts of your favorite bands), and meeting those people who you like from those around you. Having talked about your favorite hobby, most likely, you will be able to move on to more personal communication.
Step 6
Try to be open and ready for unexpected encounters. For example, you are walking alone in the park, and then an unfamiliar company invites you to ride bicycles together or take part in a flash mob. Your reaction out of habit may be negative, but it is in such an unusual situation that you have the opportunity to meet new friends and change your life. Therefore, if you have free time - agree!
Step 7
Joint employment in an interesting business, as a rule, always connects people and creates new friendly companies. Dancing, sports, yoga, hiking and creative circles, massage courses or a foreign language - all this will help you not only to improve your skills and develop self-esteem, but also to meet friends.
Step 8
On the social networks of the Internet, there are many virtual communities of interest, the members of which often meet in reality. Do not be afraid to join them, because now people of completely different social levels, ages and hobbies are participating in such associations, and, most likely, you will also find someone there to communicate with and share something important.
Step 9
If it is difficult to immediately find and join a friendly team, then direct your searches to one person who will be close to you, and with whom you can find people that are interesting to both of you. Together, going forward is much easier and more fun, namely simplicity, openness and cheerful enthusiasm will attract people to you, with whom you can eventually create a strong and friendly company.
