Communication connects a person with their own kind. If people did not contact and talk to each other, they would not be born. Often, after a conversation with a smug official or a high-browed intellectual, there is an unpleasant aftertaste and the question: "Is it really difficult to talk simply and naturally, without using abstruse phrases and terms?" Being simpler doesn't mean being stupider.
Instructions
Step 1
For a person sitting alone at a party, guests are advised to be simpler, adding "and people will be drawn to you." That's right, the ability to communicate in a spoken language with a person of any level of development is very useful. It helps to achieve certain goals in career development and in personal relationships.
Step 2
You always need to be yourself, regardless of external circumstances or mood. You are a whole, formed personality that should command respect, and ease of communication is not a hindrance to this.
Step 3
The most common mistake in a conversation with someone is the inability to listen to the interlocutor. Do you broadcast without pauses and without giving the other person the opportunity to insert at least one line? This will push people away from you. Listen carefully to the interlocutor. Even if you do not say absolutely nothing, but simply assent in the right places, the person will have a pleasant impression.
Step 4
If advice or hints are expected from you, never just give them to get rid of you. Consider the situation the person is in when they see an opportunity to help - help without finding an answer - honestly say that you cannot find a way out. The interlocutor will not be offended, but, on the contrary, will think well of you, because you sincerely wanted to help and listened to him.
Step 5
Do not put yourself above others, even if you have reached great heights. It is impossible to demonstrate superiority, to boast of it, it is pointless to flaunt it. Better, as far as possible, take part in a charity event, such actions cause the respect of others. Just help your friends, relatives, acquaintances. Not counting on mutual benefit, but on the simplicity of the soul.
Step 6
Sometimes you can get tired of talking with an annoying and unpleasant interlocutor, in this case it is better to tell the truth that you do not want to maintain communication anymore. It's better than being hypocritical and avoiding a person in every possible way.
Step 7
Simplicity is not the appearance of a shirt-guy in a quilted jacket, it is your inner state of mind. You just need to take off the mask so as not to hide your huge heart and wide smile.
