The reasons for parting are different - moving to another city, quarrels, conflicts, divorce. Many people, even after parting, cannot break an invisible connection with a person, refer to his photos or page on social networks, call, write and ask to return.
Partings are of different types: someone breaks up in order to meet again later, but for someone, parting is the final decision. However, human nature is arranged in such a way that it is very difficult to forget the past, and sometimes even impossible. And now a person again and again turns to past relationships, unable to heal the bleeding wound in his heart. It is necessary to stop such torment as soon as possible and put a fat point in the relationship.
Parting after a conflict
If you once decided to end a relationship with a person forever, stick to the chosen position. Whatever your mood or state, no matter how he asks to return, no matter how much you want it - do not take a step back. Just make that decision the moment you decide to end your relationship with him. It will make it easier for both of you.
The reason for such a decision is usually a lie or betrayal, betrayal in a relationship. Such actions cannot be forgiven. Over time, the memory of them is erased, the pain dulls, and I want to believe that the person has improved, but in most cases this is an illusion. People do not change dramatically, it is better to understand this as clearly as possible, then there will be no new disappointments with this person.
Peaceful parting
Realize the separation and accept it for yourself, relive it once in your heart, so that later you will remember this feeling with a tinge of light sadness. This advice is suitable for situations of peaceful separation, such as when a friend is leaving to live in another country. You can, of course, meet with him once a year on vacation or correspond by e-mail, but deep down you still realize that this is not the kind of communication that was before. You need to get used to such a separation, to get used to the thoughts of it. At the same time, it will be useful to remind yourself how good such a friend is in a new place, how he can make his dreams come true. This is a great way to be happy for a person and give him your love even from a distance.
Goodbye forever
When parting occurs with a dear person due to death, this is the most painful kind of separation. It can happen very unexpectedly or be expected, but it will still be difficult for anyone. In this situation, nothing else can be done except to gradually get used to the idea of loss.
People come and go from life and from each other's circle of communication, this is a normal process, therefore, you need to treat it as something inevitable and passing. It is normal to be sad in this situation, but clinging to a loss, thinking only about it, putting a lot of nerves into something that will never return is a waste of emotions. Let go of the person dear to you and move on, because someone else will definitely come in his place.
