It is difficult to talk about your feelings, especially if there is no certainty of reciprocity. It is very difficult to survive refusal, so you can not speak directly, but only hint to the guy that you love him, and then look at his reaction.
Instructions
Step 1
Much depends on what kind of relationship you have. If you barely know each other and only see each other a few times a week, it will be difficult for you to communicate your feelings. But if you are old friends and you have feelings for him, it will be much easier for you to hint about it.
Step 2
You know your friend very well, you have an idea of his interests and tastes in girls, you often talk and can quietly lead the conversation on the topic "Imagine that …", and then in this vein ask an exciting question. Behave like a girl by dressing appropriately and avoiding male-dominated pursuits. If you have discussed his girls before, interrupt him at the next story and say that you are unpleasant to hear about it. When asked about the reasons, keep silent or you can honestly admit your feelings.
Step 3
You can hint with gestures and glances. A long look in the eyes, laughter at all the jokes, frequent smiles. In addition, you can make eyes: look at him, and when he looks back, quickly look away. Ask for help with something, such as a computer, or teach you something that it can do well. At the same time, you will spend a lot of time together, and you will have the opportunity to show your sympathy. Touch him more often, hold your hand, do not move away if he touches you.
Step 4
Give a gift for a holiday. In this way, you can communicate your interest in it, but approach the choice of this subject wisely. You can give a card for February 14 in the form of a heart, and then look at his reaction. If the reaction is negative, and you do not see interest or joy in his face, you can present postcards to several more young men with the phrase that this is a friendly gesture. This way you can save face and get his opinion on your feelings.
Step 5
Touch it more often. Accidental touching with your hand when you walk by, if you repeat this three or four times with a small interval, he will soon realize that it is not just that. A hug or a kiss on the cheek for joy is appropriate for a friend, but if the duration is longer than usual, the guy can get a hint of sympathy.
Step 6
But do not have illusions about male discernment. Usually guys do not understand the hints, and if even some suspicions creep into their heads, they may think “It can't be,” and this will cancel out all your efforts. So it's best to have the courage to communicate your feelings honestly. But be sure to do it in private.
