Each person judges based on their experience and knowledge. And many people sometimes want to share this "valuable" knowledge and give advice. "I will divorce someone else's misfortune with my hands, but I will not apply my mind to mine." Don't worry too much about these recommendations. The opinion of one is not yet the opinion of everyone.
Of course, unsolicited advice is very annoying. But in any case, it is better to react calmly to such "help". Listen to the adviser, perhaps in his statements you will find something interesting for yourself, but if this is not so, then try to ignore the shameless remarks on your ears. People do not know all the features of your situation, and it makes no sense to explain, and it is not necessary. All the same, each person will interpret everything in his own way.
The main ways to deal with unsolicited advice include:
- Ignoring. You can pretend that you have missed the "valuable information" by deaf ears and turn the conversation in a different direction.
- "Valuable" advice in return. No one lives without problems, and each person has their own difficulties and “sore spots”. Therefore, you can easily "help" in response.
- Humor. It is better not to go into conflict, humor is the best way out of this situation. Unsolicited advice can be answered with some kind of anecdote or joke, making the situation less stressful.
Everyone finds their way out in solving this problem, these are just the most common ways. It must be remembered that each person judges for himself about you, and within a rather narrow framework, therefore it is necessary to understand that the opinion of one such advisor is not yet the opinion of everyone.
