For some reason, self-love is considered selfishness. Many, one might even say all books on psychology carry us the information that until you love yourself, no one will love you.
But as soon as you fall in love with yourself, you feel at the "top", then you, an egoist, are a bad person! So what's the matter, where is the golden mean, to love yourself as much as possible, but at the same time remain a "good person." This is a choice for everyone. Egoists are those people who could not be subdued, forced to do what is beneficial to someone. And instantly you become bad for them. But not everyone has this trait.
Self-love, of course, can be cultivated, but it takes a lot of time and willpower. People with this character trait have good qualities, they do not worry about every little thing, condemnation and gossip of others, they are not interested in the opinions of others, they love themselves too much to pay all their attention to criticism from outside.
So, self-love, why is it bad? They are trying to impose this on you by those people who are insecure, they are weak and susceptible to criticism and other people's opinions, they are easy to manipulate. Because self-love is your strength and faithful assistant in life! You will never allow anyone to offend or humiliate you. You know your worth! So love yourself despite the opinions of others. Because only you yourself live your life, and how to live it is solely your choice!
